When i.comes to tantalizing someone else, a sexy striptease is a surefire winner. Not only is it incredibly erotic, but it can also be a great thing to do for foreplay.
Of course, the key is that its strip TEASE, so keep that in mind
as we talk about what you need to domen and women both.
Getting Ready
When youre thinking about doing a little 'show, you want to consider what you are wearing from the inside out. What youre going to end up in after the rest of the outfit is removed is the key.
Pick out something that the other person is sure to like. Maybe theyre shared a fantasy with you. Keep that in mind.
On top of that, you will want to find a nice 'costume to wear. Maybe youre starting out as a cop or a meter maid. Whatever you choose, be sure to accessorize it and 'sex it up a little. Wear thigh high stocking and a garter belt if youd like.
Guys can just wear something tight and figure flattering. And find something other than your everyday undies. G-strings arent necessary, but something a little tighter is delicious.
Pick out music that you know will be enjoyedor find something from an erotic movie with a good tempo.
Doing The Dance
Since youre aiming to please, figure out what will please the audience ahead of time. But if you cant do that, listening to the reactions during the tease will help you move to the right beat.
Turn on the music and move your body. Move your hips and your legs. You can choose to keep your eyes focused on the 'customer or you can close your eyes and drift into your own world.
You dont have to be a professional dancer to be good. The fun is in the stripping itself.
You can either stay away from the person, or begin to rub on them like a lap dance. Tantalize them as long as they can stand it.
Stripping 101
When i.comes to the actual stripping, you need to do more than just take off your clothes. This is all about drama and teasing.
Slowly remove each article of clothing. The more you have on, the better, because then the dance can last for a while. However, you dont want to have so much on that youre boring your audience.
Take off insignificant pieces of the costume firstgloves, hats, etc.or remove them between other, more substantial itemsshirts and pants.
You can slowly remove a belt and unzip a zipper for a great effect.
Dancing in your lingerie or well-chosen underwear will be the climax.
And what about when youve run out of clothing?
Perhaps you can ask the 'audience if they want the special show. Slowly remove the rest of your covering and stop the music.
Another show starts now. Of course, thats assuming that the audience could even make it until then. A lot of 'strippers get their clothes ripped off ahead of schedule.
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