ople to act on what you say? You can get answers to these questions and more at: Approach the Coach. Go to
schrift.com/approach and ask me your number-one question about speaking skills or speaking professionally. I will answer your questions by email within 48
hours.
2. ON IMPORTANT RULES
June is a month to celebrate graduations. But, what is graduation? Well it usually includes a graduation speech, often boring, forgettable and pointless. Here is a set of rules that Bill Gates offered in a graduation speech (ideas gleaned from a book by Charles Sykes) about what is really important in life.
Life is not fair - get used to it.
The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish som et hing BEFORE you feel good about yourself.
Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it
Opportunity .
If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you find yourself. Do that on your own time.
TV is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs. The Coach is reminded that . . . 'school is something yo.complete and life is something you experience.' Congratulations and good luck to all of our graduates.
3. ON SPEAKING WELL
When people hear that I owned a national, professional speakers bureau for 13 years, they often ask me, who are the best speakers and why? What follows are some of the characteristics of a very successful speaker who is often a highly paid speaker.
1.They arrive early and check out the sound system and introduce themselves to audience members during the n et working time.
2.They speak on a subject that their audience needs to hear. And they use words and body language that shows their passion and authenticity.
3.They connect with their audience in the first few minutes with a riveting story, a funny incident, a startling statement or perhaps a poem. They know how to make their opening remarks relate to the material that follows. Click here for the rest of this article.
The Coach quotes . . . 'Tell 'em' what you're going to tell 'em, tell 'em, and then tell 'em' what you told 'em
4. ON LESSONS FROM THE FIELD
My son, Larry, has been a baseball coach to kids for many years. After games, I see how he stays positive, upbeat, and reassuring when talking to his young players. Even just after they have pitched a horrific game, or when they are in the midst of a terrible batting slump, he always says positive things about and to his 'kids.'. His players feel appreciated and supported by him. I believe it helps them to become better players. A good lesson for managing your employees - stay upbeat and positive.communicate the positives, don't 'dis' them, and don't rush to judgment.
The Coach sez . . . 'catch people doing something right.'
5. ON LAUGHTER
Do you laugh much anymore? If not, here are some ways to practice as suggested by Lloyd Thomas, Ph.D.
'Tee-hee twitter' - used often in a social setting when noise is not very appropriate. 'Ha-ha-ha' - lots of causes and meanings for this one including the 'polite laugh.' 'Jelly-belly ho-ho-ho' - when your abdomen shakes up and down. (try doing this on another person, belly to belly) 'Combination hoopla' - contagious and brings the laugher in a tearful heap on the floor, maybe feeling ill. The Coach asks . . . can laughter be the first cousin to crying?
6. ON USEFUL WEBSITES AND ANNOUNCEMENTS
Visit my new Blog (an online journal) at
schrift.com/blog Learn about the benefits of having a Niche, 'Twelve Step Process For Effective Email,' 'What Makes a Successful Speaker?' and 'Ten Tips to Motivate Your Audience in to Action and on to Your Website.' Tell me what you think . . . and add your ow.comments.
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About the Author
Coach Sandra Schrift shares a few easy-to-read insights in this bi-weekly broadcast, and welcomes positive responses and input. Her 13 years as the founder/owner of The Podium Speakers Bureau in San Diego afforded her the privilege to work with many outstanding professional speakers and meeting planners nationwide. She knows what the Meeting Planners want . . . and knows what speakers need to know!
If you are an executive, you will benefit by strengthening your presentation skills, so that whatever audio-visual aid you use will enhance, rather than distract from, your message.
As your coach, Sandra provides you with greater focus, increased ways to prospect, more ideas for getting referrals, and just more business.
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